Acey Choy’s The Winner’s Triangle

The Winner’s Triangle: A Healthier Alternative to the Drama Triangle In relationship dynamics, people can sometimes fall into unhelpful roles without realising it. The Winner’s Triangle, developed by Acey Choy, offers a healthier alternative to the well-known Drama Triangle described by Stephen Karpman. In the Drama Triangle, people tend to move between three roles: These … Read more

Correction or abuse? by The Contented Child with note by Richard Bamford

Some of us were raised to believe smacking was “normal”, and many parents carry guilt or confusion around this topic. This isn’t about blame — it’s about what we now know from brain science and attachment research. When a child is hit, their nervous system doesn’t learn a lesson — it learns fear, disconnection, and … Read more

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